I suppose it’s theoretically possible that you have 1) not read Charlotte’s Web and 2) don’t want the plot spoiled, so I will warn you now, I give away the major plot elements of the book in this post. So go somewhere else. Maybe you can go buy the book.
We first tried to read Thomas chapter books when he was three. It worked for about a week before he lost interest. He was too little to handle the long chapters full of nothing but words. He spent most of the time asking questions about the various pictures that were included at the beginning of each chapter. We put the book down and didn’t pick it back up again.
Recently we decided to try again. In retrospect it’s clear we could have come back to chapter books much sooner. It might have spared us many nights of reading and rereading long tedious books about dinosaurs. But then, Thomas’ love and knowledge of dinosaurs is one of his many endearing qualities. So perhaps it was all for the best. Either way, we returned to fiction chapter books by starting with the classic Charlotte’s Web. Where else, really?
We knew we were treading into unknown territory with this book. We weren’t sure how Thomas would react to the threat of death hanging over Wilbur’s head or the ultimate demise of his best friend. We knew that he could survive. We just didn’t know how much trauma the story would inflict.
The first sign of trouble came when the suggestion that Wilbur might be eaten for Christmas dinner was first made in the book.
“But he’s not going to get eaten,” Thomas said forcefully and then looked at me for confirmation. This is generally how Thomas confronts fear. When he says “but that won’t happen,” what he’s saying is, “I don’t want that to happen, I hope that doesn’t happen, please tell me that it won’t.”
“I don’t know,” I said. “We have to read the rest of the book to see what happens.”
And so we did. Of course, Wilbur does not die because Charlotte saves his life. Instead, it is Charlotte who dies. When Charlotte started to fatigue and it was suggested that her time was coming to an end, Thomas said, “but she’s not tired because she’s old. She’s just tired from the trip from the farm to the fair. Yeah, it was a long trip.”
This denial of what was clearly happening had Liz and I slightly worried about how Thomas would react when she finally died. The night we read the chapter in which Charlotte passes, he became very agitated as the chapter progressed. He squirmed and bounced about on our bed as Charlotte declared that she was “done for.” In the book, Wilbur is frantic when he realizes Charlotte is dying and will not return to the farm with him. He is desperate to get her egg sac so that he can take it with him back to the farm. He succeeds, with the help of Templeton the rat. He then is loaded into his crate. He says a silent goodbye to his friend and leaves her at the fairgrounds.
The chapter ends with a beautiful but very sad description of her death. The final sentence is, “No one was with her when she died.” As I read those words Thomas was quiet and still. I closed the book for a moment and turned to him and said, “what happened?”
“Charlotte died,” he said. “But Wilbur took her egg sac back to the farm.”
“And how do you feel about that?”
“Well, it’s sad that Charlotte died, but it’s good that her babies won’t be born alone.”

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One of my favorite quotes from my 7 year old when talking about Charlotte’s Web (and he was 100% serious when he was telling me this), “Charlotte’s Web is not about the Internet.”
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One of my favorites! I love Thomas.
Some pig.
Some boy.
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What a wonderful post about a wonderful boy and a wonderful book!
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Oof goes my heart. :(
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That is precious. I loooved that story. Have you let him watch the movie yet??:)
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*wiping away tears*
That’s one awesome little boy you have there.
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I remember reading Charlotte’s Web to your brother when he was 6 years old. We both cried at the end of that chapter.
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Charlotte DIES AT THE END???? Why didn’t someone tell me that? Wahhhhh.
I’m glad Thomas didn’t go on a bacon strike or something. Also that he handled the end pretty well. M didn’t when I read it to her. Yeah, my kid likes animals more than people. You only have to make that mistake once.
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I want to say Ben that I knew this would happen when I finally read this post so I don’t totally blame you and it’s my fault to read this while sitting at my desk, IN A BULLPEN surrounded by MEN(boys).
WHY YOU MAKE ME CRY?
(Freakin’ Hormones!)
I would like to hug your son now.
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Ben Reply:
February 9th, 2010 at 1:49 am
It wasn’t my fault. It was the boy. I just write the stuff down.
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